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First Date for couples
Getting-to-know-you cards for a first date, before any of this is official.
- What made you say yes to meeting me instead of politely inventing a conflict? TRUTH
- Order the drink you'd pick on a perfect afternoon and explain the choice. DARE
- Which question do people always ask on dates that you've grown tired of? TRUTH
- Describe this place like a food critic who is being paid too much. DARE
- How did you spend the hour before walking in here tonight? TRUTH
- Show me the oldest photo on your phone that you're willing to explain. DARE
- What's something you're unreasonably good at that never comes up in conversation? TRUTH
- Pick a table nearby and invent a full backstory for the people sitting there. DARE
- Were you expecting someone different from the person who actually sat down? TRUTH
- Recommend one thing on this menu as if your reputation depended on it. DARE
- What's a hobby you'd defend passionately even though most people find it dull? TRUTH
- Teach me a word from another language and make me repeat it correctly. DARE
- Which city have you visited that you'd move to tomorrow without hesitating? TRUTH
- Say the last sentence you typed today out loud, with no context. DARE
- What do your friends come to you for when something goes wrong? TRUTH
- Guess my coffee order and defend the reasoning before I confirm anything. DARE
- Is there a subject you could talk about for an hour uninterrupted? TRUTH
- Rate the music playing here out of ten and justify the score seriously. DARE
- What were you like at eighteen, and how much of that survived? TRUTH
- Tell me about your week in exactly three sentences, no more. DARE
- Which film or show have you rewatched more times than you'd admit publicly? TRUTH
- Draw whatever is in front of you on a napkin in thirty seconds. DARE
- What's the best piece of advice you ignored completely? TRUTH
- Describe your ideal Sunday from waking up to falling asleep. DARE
- How long have you lived around here, and what brought you originally? TRUTH
- Name three things you'd take to a desert island, defending each one. DARE
- What's a small thing that reliably ruins your whole mood? TRUTH
- Give the staff here a compliment on your way past, quietly and genuinely. DARE
- Which part of your job would surprise people who don't do it? TRUTH
- Read me the most recent notification on your lock screen, if it's harmless. DARE
- Did you have a plan for tonight, or are you improvising like me? TRUTH
- Describe your hometown in a way that makes me want to visit. DARE
- What's something you've changed your mind about in the last few years? TRUTH
- Pick a song and make the case that everyone should hear it once. DARE
- Are you the friend who organizes things or the one who simply shows up? TRUTH
- Do your best impression of someone famous and let me guess who. DARE
- What did you want to be when you were seven years old? TRUTH
- Tell me one true fact so strange it sounds invented. DARE
- Which meal would you happily eat once a week for the rest of your life? TRUTH
- Invent a cocktail name for whatever I'm drinking and describe its ingredients. DARE
- What's the last thing that genuinely made you laugh out loud alone? TRUTH
- List five things in this room you'd steal if there were no consequences. DARE
- Do you prefer plans made weeks ahead or decided an hour before? TRUTH
- Describe me to an imaginary friend on the phone, right now, out loud. DARE
- What's a skill you started learning and abandoned embarrassingly quickly? TRUTH
- Give the most confident directions you can to somewhere you've never been. DARE
- Which of your family members would I get along with best? TRUTH
- Rank the three nearest objects by how useful they'd be in a crisis. DARE
- What kind of weather actually matches your personality? TRUTH
- Order something for me that you think I'll enjoy, and take the risk. DARE
- Have you ever moved somewhere on impulse, and did it work out? TRUTH
- Say something nice about the last stranger who helped you this week. DARE
- What's the strangest job you've ever had, even briefly? TRUTH
- Describe your phone's home screen without showing it to me. DARE
- Which book, podcast or album has stayed with you longest? TRUTH
- Make up a proverb that sounds ancient and wise, then explain it. DARE
- Are you an early riser by choice or purely by obligation? TRUTH
- Tell me your go-to story from any wedding you've ever attended. DARE
- What's something about yourself you've only recently started to like? TRUTH
- Pick any year of your life and summarize it in one sentence. DARE
- Do you keep in touch with people from school, or did that fade? TRUTH
- Argue passionately for two minutes that cereal counts as dinner. DARE
- What's the nicest thing a stranger has ever done for you? TRUTH
- Name the last three places you ate out and rank them honestly. DARE
- Which sound or smell instantly takes you somewhere else? TRUTH
- Guess where I grew up and explain what gave it away. DARE
- What would you do with a free year and no obligations? TRUTH
- Describe the worst haircut you've ever had in unnecessary detail. DARE
- Are you competitive about anything genuinely ridiculous that nobody else takes seriously? TRUTH
- Give me a two-sentence review of the last thing you watched. DARE
- What's your honest relationship with cooking, and who taught you whatever you know? TRUTH
- Tell me about a photo you'd frame if you printed anything anymore. DARE
- Which decade would you have enjoyed living through most? TRUTH
- Pretend you're introducing me at an award ceremony you know nothing about. DARE
- Do you talk to your neighbours, or nod and keep walking? TRUTH
- Explain your morning routine as though it's a complicated scientific procedure. DARE
- What's a rule you grew up with that you now find absurd? TRUTH
- Choose a dessert for us to share and defend it against all objections. DARE
- Is there somewhere you go when you need to think clearly? TRUTH
- Tell me the most useful thing you learned in the past month. DARE
- How do you usually spend a birthday, big party or quiet dinner? TRUTH
- Describe the sky today as dramatically as you possibly can. DARE
- What animal would you be, and don't pick something flattering? TRUTH
- Name one thing you'd change about this street if you ran the city. DARE
- Which chore do you genuinely not mind doing? TRUTH
- Recite the last thing you memorized, however useless it is. DARE
- Have you ever been recognized by a stranger for something? TRUTH
- Tell me a compliment you once received that you still think about. DARE
- What's the longest you've gone without checking your phone recently? TRUTH
- Pick anyone in your life and explain why they'd like this place. DARE
- Do you plan holidays obsessively or land somewhere and figure it out? TRUTH
- Invent a new national holiday and explain how everyone would celebrate it. DARE
- Which talent would you steal from someone you know? TRUTH
- Summarize the plot of your favourite film so badly it sounds terrible. DARE
- What's something you believed about adult life that turned out completely wrong? TRUTH
- Give this evening a title, like a chapter in a book. DARE
- What's a place near here you'd bring someone to show off the city? TRUTH
- Ask me one question you've been curious about since we sat down. DARE
- Are you more nervous than you're letting on, or genuinely this calm? TRUTH
- Say one thing you'd like to do again sometime, with no pressure attached. DARE