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Future & Dreams for couples

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Where do you want us to be living in five years?
What's one trip you want us to take before we get old?
Do you want our life to be busier or quieter than it is now?
What's a skill you want us to learn together?
What does a perfect ordinary Tuesday look like ten years from now?
What's something you want to stop worrying about by next year?
What kind of home do you picture — and what's in the kitchen?
What tradition do you want us to start and keep?
What would you want us to do if we suddenly had a free year?
What's a fear you have about our future that you've never said?
How do you want us to handle money five years from now?
What do you want our friends to say about us at forty?
If we could plant roots in one city forever, which one?
What's something you want to be brave enough to try by then?
What do you hope we still argue about, in a good way?
What's a goal of mine you want to see me finish?
What would you want our anniversary to look like every year?
What do you want to have let go of by this time next year?
If we had to choose between more time and more money, which?
What's a promise you'd want us to renew every year?
What kind of older person do you want to become?
What do you want the walls of our place to be covered in?
What's one thing you never want us to become?
What would make you say the next decade was a good one?
What do you want to build together that isn't a house?
If we could only keep three things from our life now, what?
What do you hope we're still doing on Sunday mornings?
What's a version of our future that scares you a little but excites you more?
What do you want me to push you toward?
How do you want to be taken care of when you're old?
Where do you want us to be when we finally feel like we made it?
How many bedrooms does the house in your head actually have?
Do you want a garden, a balcony, or neither in our future?
Which country would you happily learn a language for?
Would you rather retire early somewhere quiet or work longer somewhere exciting?
When do you imagine we'll feel financially settled, if ever?
Is there a job you'd want to try before you're fifty?
Tell me the first thing you'd buy if our savings doubled?
Name a habit you want us both to have picked up by next winter?
Could you live abroad for a year if the chance appeared?
How should we decide something big when we completely disagree?
Do you want us to host the holidays one day, or escape them entirely?
Which of our friendships do you want to still have at sixty?
Would you want to live near your family or far from everyone?
If one of us had to change careers, whose should it be?
Are you hoping our life gets simpler or bigger from here?
Describe the morning routine you'd want if neither of us had to rush?
When we're old, who do you think will be the difficult one?
Do you want us working forever, or stopping as soon as we can?
Which season would you want to be our travelling season every year?
Have you thought about how we'd handle one of us getting sick?
Tell me about a future version of me you're excited to meet?
Name one thing you refuse to compromise on, whatever happens?
Should we set a rule about work following us on holiday?
How do you want us to celebrate the years when nothing dramatic happens?
Is there a person you'd want living close to us one day?
Would you want a big place far out or something small and central?
Do you see us having pets, and how many is too many?
Which of your current worries do you think we'll laugh about later?
Could you be happy if none of our big plans worked out?
Where would you want us to go the year we finally have time?
Are there sacrifices you're willing to make now for easier years later?
Tell me how you'd want us to spend one entirely free summer?
When should we stop saying someday and pick an actual date?
How do you want us to handle our parents growing older?
Do you want our future to resemble anyone else's that you know?
Which routine of ours do you hope survives the next twenty years?
Name the first place you'd take me if we won a fortune?
Is there something you want to build with your hands before you're done?
Would you rather have one enormous adventure or many small ones?
Should we be saving harder, or are we already living too carefully?
How much of our future do you think we can actually control?
Do you want children in the picture, and has that shifted lately?
Which of my ambitions do you quietly worry will take me away?
Are you afraid we'll drift, or do you think we're safe?
Tell me something you'd want written on a plaque in our garden?
When you imagine our worst year ahead, how do we get through it?
Name a language, instrument, or craft you want to learn late in life?
Could we survive living in a tiny space together for a whole year?
Where should our ashes end up, if we're being practical about it?
Is there a version of our future you're afraid to ask me for?
Would you want us to write our plans down or keep them loose?
Do you think we'll still surprise each other in fifteen years?
How do you want our home to feel to somebody visiting for the first time?
Which holidays should always be ours alone, no matter who invites us?
Are there things you want to do without me, and is that fine?
Tell me one promise about the future you would sign today?
When we have more money, what should stay exactly the same?
Name the first room you'd renovate in a place we owned?
Should we be planning for the worst, or would that spoil things?
How should we disagree differently once we've been together much longer?
Do you want to grow old loudly or gracefully?
Which city have you visited that you could genuinely imagine us in?
Could you forgive me if a future decision of mine cost us badly?
Are you carrying a plan you haven't told me about yet?
Where do you want to be standing on your sixtieth birthday?
Is there a charity or a cause you want us to commit to?
Would you want a wedding, a party, or nothing at all eventually?
Tell me how you want us to spend the last hour of ordinary days?
Name one thing about us you never want to explain to anyone?